Have you been angry? Have you noticed someone in anger?
It’s natural to get heated up because something went wrong somewhere.
It is quite often that we see people shouting or yelling at someone who is just not the cause for his/her bad mood.
You can’t vent your anger on someone for no reason. No excuse – as you are in a bad mood.
You are spoiling a relationship there and don’t ever, even expect the other person to understand you. It is out of question. You couldn’t understand why you are angry at him/her and how could you expect her to understand you?
It’s not her who should mind you but yourself.
Anger is just not an emotion nor an excited state. It is a lethal weapon unlike fear or joy. It should be a tool to make a change. It is potent enough to transform used in the right way.
Anger is fire – It can burn or it can create. It is up to you to harness the energy.
A person irritates you. You yell back at him. Why? You are not angry at him but your inability to handle your irritability. So, focus on your short comings and thank for the opportunity and use it to groom you. You would like to see anger pop up in you and you would not regret it.
Inaction and inability kindles anger. Use it to make the essential transformation.
“Anybody can become angry – that is easy, but to be angry with the right person and to the right degree and at the right time and for the right purpose, and in the right way – that is not within everybody’s power and is not easy.” – Aristotle.
Let the above quote be the guiding principle through out your life and help tame your anger. You could go distances.
Words reflect you and not your mood. So better mind them before you utter any.